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Why is the rating point withdrawn from sellers ratings, when a BUYER FAILS TO COMPLETE THE TRANSACTION (either by non-payment / erroneous order). Is the seller not eligible to gain the FEEDBACK RATING, posted by the buyer of the failed transaction ?
After completion of transaction, buyers (unknowingly) send a +ve feedback thru ebay mail, and not following the proceedure laid down by ebay, thus depriving the seller of a rating point. my question is, "IS THERE A WAY TO CONVERT THE MSG. RECVD. FROM...
I have posted more than 5 items for sale, but while trying to search for my products using various combinations of keywords, i could not locate my selling items. Can anybody pl. help me ?