Dear Palani K.S,
I aggree some of your points. I am also a seller and there are both good as well as bad to worst sellers at ebay.
But the thing you should do is you should check the from when the seller is been registered at ebay and should check the feedback.
Here if both buyer & seller is honest, the ebay is convenient.
Also a seller has all rights to ask the good feedback IF THE PRODUCT HAS BEEN ALREADY DELIVERED AND ITS IN SATISFACTORY CONDITION.
So if the seller do asks before, then report him to eBay.
Also there is no issues in contacting seller or buyer via email/phone once the order is placed at ebay.
But contacting via eBay is more better than the ebay.
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With Regards,
Snrama
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With Regards,
Navaneeth (snrama)
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