Dear fellow buyers,
If you are being messed around by a seller and ebay is no help - then here is the quick & easy solution:
It only works if you paid with Visa or Mastercard or similar kind of debit/credit card:
1) You call your bank customer service and explain the fraud on your card - then ask for a "chargeback" under the Visa protections. Your bank may ask you to fax a letter with your details and confirming you require a chargeback.
Thats it! - it really is that simple.
Visa refund with-in 48 hours. Look up "chargeback' on google for ebay uk and ebay usa and you will see that this is how buyers have to get their refunds when ebay is no help.
Good luck!