If you communicated to the seller to send it COD & it was not delivered then file a Non-Selling Seller report on them, once you file it, you are no longer obligated to complete the transaction with the seller. This will also help you if the seller files a Unpaid Item report on you, just reference the Non-Selling Seller report if they file the Unpaid Item one on you.
http://pages.ebay.in/help/policies/non-selling-seller.html
Kathie
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