Get a signed hardcopy receipt from the buyer saying that he has received the item, along with seller id, buyer id and paisapay id, item title and item id and also mention the date of receipt of item by the buyer, send a scanned copy of the same to ebay and also if possible send a hardcopy by post too.
The rules in the matter are very clear, why do you people by-pass them and then cry I don't understand.
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