iec code if taken is helpful ... but you do not need it actually ... unless you plan to take a duty draw back ! best way to recieve payments for small amounts is paisa pay and paypal is good too and demanded by most customers but my personal observation is ... it can be full of hassles ... only accept if absolutely must !
for european buyers ... direct bank transfer is a very good option and they are comfortable ... just ask your bankers to provide you with the swift code required to be sent to the seller depending on his location ... it takes 4-5 days maximum these days !
use courier which has a clout and your items do not get delayed in customs as a packet if gets sent back to india due to some duty problems can prove costly for us! never use non tracking courier as international customers can get panicky !
regards / hitesh
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