@chitunil...
I sympathize with you and the inconvenience that you have faced but I do not agree with the part where you say that ebay should take some responsibility. ebay has mentioned very clearly in which cases they will be able to help the buyer and offer buyer protection and where not. The payment mode selected by you is outside the ambit of ebay buyer protection so ebay cannot help you in anyway. Yes they should have replied to your mail and explained the matter and guided you in the right direction, I wonder why they did not do it.
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