Hello Sire!
There are perhaps many solutions to take care of that.
One of them is - Not to buy from that seller who makes you feel cheated!
In addition, you can ask the seller about the reason for increased shipping-costs and inform him of cheaper available methods.
Or, if you feel shipping-costs do not go with the items being offered, you can take the help of eBay to bring that listing down.
Wishing you,
Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year,
BYE!!