Hello everyone,
The same is happening with me now!
A few days ago, 11 April 2007 precisely, I bought a Memory Stick Duo card from eBay USA. The seller was 'topemart' from Hongkong with a very high feedback rating (>7000, 98% +ve). I paid $40 for the card through Paypal and the seller told me that he sent it through Airmail. But even after a month a have not received anything from him. After numerous emails (of which he replied just a few) he told he'd be resending the item. But I am not sure whether he did that because even after asking many times, I got no reply regarding Shipping details (Tracking No, date of despatch, etc.)
The post-office in my area has no record of any such item. I am aware that if Customs places a tax that would be brought to me by the Postman, but in any case it has to come to me, isn't it! As a last resort I have reported a dispute with Paypal yesterday.
Let's see what happens. I am optimistic!
Keep posting.