from the date order is placed with you : 7 days for dispatching the item + 10 days for receiving the item by the buyer + 5 days grace period for the buyer to confirm receipt of the item. that many days it will take.
Hello paraskhosla160,
As your business grows,you will get Express Remittance facility.Then it wont matter,
Happy selling from me also,
Thanx,
Truly,
Amitava
Call him up and ask them to confirm the item or send a mail thru ebay. Say that till they do not confirm your payment is held up with ebay. They usually confirm after this email.