Hi bestofkashmir,
Sorry to hear about the delay in the processing of the Paisapay payment. The best way to find out about any pending payment is through "Contact Us" link:
http://pages.ebay.in/help/contact_us/_base/index.html
However, of what I know, many a times, such delays occur when there is some kind of delay from the buyer's end in completing the payment verification.
Till the time the verification is not completed, the transaction reflects as "Pending". After which the same is rejected by the PaisaPay Team.
In this situation, you may choose to contact the buyer and request him to complete the verification process at the earliest. The buyer can also write to our Customer Support Team, for further clarification.
http://pages.ebay.in/help/contact_us/_base/index.html
I hope this helps!
Regards,
Jyoti
Regards,
Jyoti