Dear Sooraj awasthyji,
How are you? I know that you are really a nice person and very prompt in making payment and honouring the deal on eBay.
I had gone through the entire post of yours and I felt sorry to know the things.
Well I personally will advice to to deal with sellers who are willing to co-operate and support,ask the seller question that money order will be ok? Clear each and everu doubt you have and preserve the answer for providin as a proof.
One you get the confirmation that the payment had been done,Ask seller to confirm the payment and if he dun confirm then open a item not recieved dispute and provide payment details.
The seller will be force to confirm the payment.
I will try my best to see that I can help you,Also let community know who is the seller who is haressing a guine buyer like you and earning bad name to ebay.
I hope my reply satisfied you.
With Regards,
Deep Agarwal.
www.stores.ebay.in/shree-krishna-gems